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betrayed123  

Need Money for next 2 months

I recently left my husband, marital home for 16 years and my two boys. I filed on 10/29/10 and had to leave for VERY good reasons. I am now renting a house in the city and very sad most days. I see my boys every other week, (Sunday-Sunday) and I always look forward to my Sundays!!! I recently injured my back. I have 2 collepsted vertabras and one rib. I also found out that because of a new law in effect for all Banks, C.U. Lenders and Brokers, the goverment is enforcing a specfic pay structure the owner of businss must follow. It is like being handed your pink slip. I have been a mtg broker for 18 years and in the last 6 months, filed for divorce, left my home, left my neighbors and friends and most of all, my boys. We have agreed right now to every other week for boys. The reason for my request is: I am commissioned and I just paid what I could with the last check that I may see in months. I have 50.00 to my name. I cannot go back to my husband. Our marriage was for 16 years, of which I was the supportor and he worked self employed but I never seen a dime. I paid for everything we have! Now here I am, in terrable trouble and he says or does nothing. He calls me terriable names, spends money a new items since I left the house. Won't let me file our tax returns together, which is stupid. So I can't even hope for a refund, but I do know, I cannot atticapate a check in the next month or more. Please, Please help me.
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Cosmogirl15  

About Cosmogirl15

I am a single mom who got in an accident and broke my collar bone, i have been out of work, and unable to use my right arm to do much of anything. I applied for unemplyment but have yet to recieve anything. I still have another month to return to work. We are about to loose my house, and i have already borrowed money from those who i can just to pay the bills. Please help! Thank you

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Anonymous  

I don't know what to do anymore!

If anyone is actually out there to really help people then please I am in desperate need! After my injury my wife began looking for work but in this economic crisis we are in there are no jobs. We have exhausted all of our funds and are about to be kicked out on the street with our two daughters 6 and 4!! They don't understand what is going on but they know it is not good they ask all the time if we are alright! I am in need of a loan not a hand out I will repay the loan as soon as my case settles! Please help my family and I get through this mess thats all I am asking Please!!!!!!!!! Thank you to whom ever reads this!!!

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oliveeue  

Heros Amongst Us

Heroes Amongst Us is an organization that I started March 26, 2010. What our mission is, is to help our soldiers that are returning from war that have been injured or just need a hand up.

My hope and desire is to keep this organization non-profit. To be able to keep all expenses to an absolute minimum. PayPal at this point charges 4% on every donation and that is our only expense to date.

Our focus is on paying their rent or mortgage up for 1 year and/or paying their car off. When they return home they have all the stresses of daily life back whether they are ready or not. Some Vets are wounded and have to deal with the medical issues of trying to get better.

With having their rent and/or car paid off those are two major expenses that they don't have to worry about for the next year and it allows the soldier to breath a little.

I started this organization when I watched my boyfriend struggle to return from war injured with a broken neck only to find out his wife was leaving him for a man that she met online, he needed surgery for his broken neck, and he was going to have his family pulled apart.

I watched him struggle for a good year to pay the mortgage and his car payment. It was a struggle to raise his daughter and worry about all the normal day to day issues that you and I deal with. They feel inadequate and feel worthless because they feel they cannot provide. My boyfriend was medically discharged from the U.S. Army in 2009 and tried to go back to civilian life but was very difficult transition. He now attends automotive school and is able to attend because of the G.I. Bill.

Lets help these soldiers get back on their feet and show them that we appreciate their sacrifices.

We are on eBay. search for member - oliveeue, at www.eBay.com.

 

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drummerguy77  

About drummerguy77

I am a father of 4 and have one on the way. I got injured on the job and no have to live on half of my income from before from Workers Compensation. It pays the rent and bills and food barely, but there is nothing extra. I am looking for some help though Christmas time so my children get to have a nice Christmas. I am a pc technician, but not able to work from my knee injury. If any of you know any organizations to contact or want to help, please do not hesitate. We are in need and would appreciate any help that can be provided.

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SarahLoo  

About SarahLoo

My name is Sarah... I am a single mom.  On August 9, 2009 my son (Johnny-6yrs) and I were in a serious car accident.  Johnny (my son) was left in a coma.  I underwent 2 surgeries, but my son is the only thing that matters.  He wasn't expected to make much of a recovery.  We are a family of Faith, we believe in The Word of God, and God has no limitations.  Recently we found out his spinal cord injury that originally was going to require a surgery, had begun healing itself.  In fact, in three weeks the brace will be removed.  He has opened both his eyes and he has no paralysis.  He is on a ventilator that is helping him breath.  Every day he shows us something new and I love him more than life itself.  I will post a picture tomorrow.  We are in need of home health care for his respitory care while God works on the rest.  My insurance covers the care, but there will have to be a 300$ a month raise in my rent.  I don't know where to turn.  I trust God, so I am just telling a little about our story and hopeing that it makes it to the right person.  ANY suggestions would be appreciated, my heart breaks daily, I am consumed with the determination to make this miracle possible for my little man.  PLEASE PRAY!  Forward any suggestions on how I can find resolution for my financial issue, please.  Thank you and God Bless.

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mr_texarcana  

About mr_texarcana

Thank you for taking the time to read my post. My story begins with a two story fall that fractured two vertebrae. I was running my own small contracting company. I was off of work 6 months and had to sell off my equipment to pay off two cars and keep our heads above water. The money ran out 3 months ago and we were forced out of our home. I'm getting up and around again and could use some help with gas, bills, and saving for our own place, since we are currently living with family. Thank you for reading.

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chuck1549  

About chuck1549

I have sent this to all my Government Representatives but they are to busy. I hope this will be read and help will be offered.

When I first wrote you for help do to my workman’s compensation denial with my back and the decision against me your staff member called me back and told me to contact Craig Fry's office for help. I have e-mailed him 3 times and phoned and left 5 messages with no response and I am at my wits end. I will now pursue my occupational disease case that will probably last another 3 years as the back case took. I have always been a hard worker and supported my family with the belief that my wife stay home and raise our kids no matter how hard we would struggle. I have 15 year old twin daughters and a 13 year old son that have excelled in their school and sports. My daughters currently carry a 4.0 GPA, and my son at first had problems until we found he suffered from ADHD and was put on adderall. In one grading period he went from straight Ds to all as and 2 Bs we are very proud ophpf our kids. I never want a free hand out and have earned my way. The company I worked for was Trail Master Custom Boat Trailers as their lead sandblaster. I carried the company on my shoulders for 12 years and produced 5 times the output then any employee in the shop. I am not trying to build myself up to you I just want you to have an idea of what I am about. Trail Master is a Non-union shop that has certain untold rules that we know that will have us fired. When I first hurt my back I did not file for workman’s compensation for I knew I would lose my job, and now I wish I had for that is the biggest question I have to answer. People do not understand that I needed to put my family in front of my injury, as I did report it to Chris Krieger (owner) and Karl Erickson (General Manager) of my injury and needed to seek medical care and that is when I began to see Dr. Kotoske of my problems. He sent me to receive a MRI and found that I had a combination of degenerated discs, ruptured disc's and bulging discs. He has treated me with a combination of medication and manipulation which I went for once a month and paid out of pocket. For me to go to the Dr Once a month I would have to fill out a day off sheet prior to my visit which was signed by me, Chris and Karl. The night sandblaster would be notified that on the day of my visit he would need to come in early. In my Dr's deposition he stated that the injury was a result of the physical labor associated with my position. It was not exactly an injury that was pinpointed to one specific time but the stress that my back had endured through repetition of my job. The date that the injury actually brought me notice was in 2004, and I continued to work, with my employer having knowledge of my injury. In Dec. 2004 I was working and felt something that was not the same as I felt before in my back. I went to Chris and Karl and explained what had happened and I was told to continue working and my reply was this was s not the usual pain I had felt before, which I had worked in conditions that I could barely walk but with me not working I was making no money. I finally asked if they would lay me off for at that time of year they would take voluntary layoffs. They told me that it was not an option for me because they needed me there. I was in a position in which I did not know what to do. Finally I went into the office and told them that I wanted to go to the company doctor. Karl told me there was no company doctor. After a little while Chris and Karl called me into the office and explained that they would lay me off to seek care for my back and get it repaired, but one condition was that I had to sign a medical leave document and with the only thing on my mind was the support of my family. I explained the situation to Dr. Kotoske and with not surgery as an option if I had planned to go back to work   We came to the conclusion mt injuries were not capable of repair through this method and the only other alternative was that I found an easier position. In March Karl called me back to work and I explained my Dr would not release me to sandblast and that I need an easier position. Karl and I negotiated a new position as a prepper in the paint dept. with a cut in pay and a bonus share taken away. I returned to work the next day and began my new position. I worked for about an hour and Chris (Owner) came and started discussing my injury and asked if I would call my Dr and ask for a release that I could sandblast in emergency situations. My Dr. faxed a report to Trail Master stating that we in no way would release me to do the sandblasting job in no circumstances.  At approx. 9 Am I was called into the office and met with Chris and Karl and was informed with the decision of my Dr. they had no other choice but to terminate my position. I was in shock and confused and called my wife explained it to her and she came and picked me up. My first step was to regroup and refilled for my unemployment. I then receive a letter from the unemployment office that my unemployment benefits were denied do to the reason that the same day I was terminated Karl had called and stated that they had tried to call me back for 10 days and I never returned their calls, so they had no alternative but to terminate me. I quickly appealed the decision and explained what had really happened and the unemployment office made an investigation and found that I had been wrongfully fired do to the reason that the had knowledge of my injuries and had no real claim to my termination and my benefits were restored. I attained a workman’s comp. attorney and filed a suit. In aprox. 2 years I had a hearing with the workman's compensation judge. I explained in testimony what had happened in the same manner of this letter to you. In Chris and Karl's testimony they testified under oath that they had no knowledge of my injury and no knowledge of me going to the Dr once a month only that I would take half a day off once a month. They testified that no day off authorization slips and that I had requested a medical leave and they did not know why but they went ahead and complied. They went into the testimony of my return to work and Chris and Karl stated that I had been called back to work and was given the preppers’ job and after 3 hours I had just left without talking to them. They then explained that I was the best worker they had ever had and I did not miss work and I would go above and beyond my position to help in any department that needed it. My father and wife were in the back of the room and showed discussed with Chris and Karl's testimony as my dad had very harsh feelings against them. The reason he had was that he had tripped at work over a fender that was placed in the middle of the floor and cracked his knee. He went on workman’s comp and when the Dr released my dad he went to work and was told his position was no longer available. He was devastated at the age of 60 or 61 what was he to do. As we left the court room the judge looked at me and stated that I should pat my father and wife on the back for the expressions of disgust they exhibited through the hearing. After 3 long months’ we finally received the decision that was in favor of the employer, that they were not guilty of any responsibility due to my not reporting my injuries and had left my job willingly. I was in a state of shock and could not understand how this decision went with the Unemployment investigation and the 2 different false testimonies on the reasons I had been terminated. My attorney had no answers and quickly appealed the decision. My attorney requested a transcript of the prior hearing looking for answers. 6 months went by and still no date had been set and we found that the transcript had not been made and signed for and until that was finished a date for a hearing could not be set. We finally received a hearing date and my attorney went an explained the conflicts of testimony and the decision of the judge. We waited for the decision to come and after 2 months we received the decision that the board found in favor of the earlier decision by majority rule. Again I was stunned that these false testimonies and great injustices were over looked and has left my family in great despair. The stress in my family has caused my children to seek help of a therapist and my marriage has suffered a great deal. I have looked for employment which no employer will hire me with me medical problems and disability has denied me which I have appealed which the burden should be placed on my former employer and not the tax payers. I have been enrolled into a online college to study Business for me to try and find a new career. My family has had to survive on food stamps, tariff check which I am grateful for and again tax payers are paying for my condition. We have to seek help from the trustee and other sources of poor relief while my employer gets away with this injustice and often make jokes of what had has happened to me to friends still employed there but would not admit it due to warnings from Karl and Chris that anyone to go to my defense would be terminated, and I can not blame them for that have families also and they have seen what the company did to me and my father. I have often considered leaving my family thinking they would be better without me and I have considered suicide giving them a chance at a better life. I do not know where to turn, I have contacted all my news stations and newspaper and I have been ignored. I sent letters like the first one that I sent you to all political offices and you have been the only one who has made an effort to contact me. Why must my family suffer in such a manner for lies and destroyed documentation, evidence pointing to the employers lies of my termination. I have worked hard all my life and did the best I could for Trail Master and this is my payment for this. How can the state of Indiana as well as the national Government ignore my cry for help and discard my family. I need help and I need it fast. I beg you please do not disregard my plea to you for help, I have no where to turn and am losing my reason for living. I have put a great burden on my family that they should not have to contend with. I am trying to start a new career with my schooling but is very hard when you have no one to turn to.

 

 

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Going Crazy  

About Going Crazy

Husband lost his job of 30 years and with it went his insurance and of course we lived pay check to paycheck.  Right now between us we have $15, trying to get on unemployment but it's been over 3 weeks and nothing.  He was also injured on the job and so far no workers comp.  Nobody will help.  I've helped people that were supposed to be my friends moving box's and pretty hard labor for someone  my age for a few bucks. 

Please if anyone can give me any ideas on how to get something going I would appreciate it.  We have no food or gas in car right now.  I'm scared    What to do

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Angel face  

Angel face

Help me pay my bills! I suffered a knee injury and am not working,have no money to pay bills .I have no income.  I need to find a place to live. I am going threw a Divorce after 13years,he has never helped me money wise or for anything for that matter. He is a cheater, but I forgave again and again, due to my beliefs. I agreed to the divorce,because I am tired of living this way! I have several chronic medical conditions I also have severe depression and anexity. Can or will anyone help me! You can goto www.digitalchariety.com and donate to me threw pay pal or tell me where i can get help fast! I am about to lose my car!!

 

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Nurse in Need  

Can You Please Help a Nurse in Need?

This is the first time I’ve every done something like this and it is difficult so please bear with me. I am Kelly and I am a Registered Nurse. I've spent many years having the opportunity to do what I love, helping others in need. I have been the caregiver and advocate for others who are suffering from illness or injury and also a liaison for family members who are caught in the painful, sometime powerless feeling of watching their loved ones go through illness or injury.

Now I find myself in the position of needing help. I was injured at work, but I am told it will be months until I receive any help financially. I have lost just about everything, except my home. And I am terrified I will loose that too. As a nurse I have faced emergencies with skill and professionalism, but I’m afraid I’ve hit a problem I am not able to fix. As difficult as it is for me to ask for help, I would imagine it is also difficult for someone to offer help to a virtual stranger, so let me give you a bit of insight into who I am.

I accepted the position as Director of Nursing at my current job. This facility's pay is very low with no health insurance or other health benefits, no sick time, vacation or holiday pay. This facility also had a reputation of doing very badly during state visits and has an administrator who is known for treating her staff poorly and letting the people in her care do without even some of the most basic of needs.

I had my work cut out for me. But I did not take the job because it would be easy. I took the job because I saw a need for my skills and expertise and I knew I could make a difference in the lives of the patients and the staff. I firmly believe that everyone, regardless of their financial or social status, deserve the best care available. And with the help of other dedicated staff members, I was able to create an environment that was focused on the well-being of those under my care. The patients and staff now had someone who was not afraid to speak up for them. Someone who put the patient's needs above all else and set the standard for other health care professionals in the facility. Having State Survey cite no deficiencies (the first time in over 10 years) was an added bonus. But the best indicator that I was doing my job was on the faces of those in my care. It wasn't uncommon for me to clock out at three but not leave until four. As I would make my way toward the door, patients would stop me and want to talk to me, share stories with me or just want to exchange pleasantries as I left and make sure I was coming back 'tomorrow'.

In my private life, I purchased a major fixer-upper. But it was love at first sight! By doing the renovations ourselves, we have saved thousands I’m sure and it also helps that we have been lucky enough to find things others don’t want and use it for this task. Even though this project has had to come to a halt since I’ve been injured, I know that the rest of the ceilings will be put up, we’ll be able to paint the drywall and have a tub to use down the road.

But in the meanwhile, I am in what seems to be a hurt at work nightmare as my boss and the insurance company refuse to get me the medical treatment I so desperately need and agree to give me temporary total disability. I am so lost, scarred and in so much pain. My hope is that there are people out there who would be willing to help me financially or by any other means available. My mortgage is $296 per month (one advantage of getting such a fixer-upper). And since we have been cutting back on bills, my bills are about $150 per month. Any help at all would be so appreciated. I could even make arrangements to pay back a loan if someone is willing to help in that way.

I have heard that adversity can bring out the best in people. I believe that with my whole heart. I’ve been privileged enough to see it during my career. Finding this website has really opened some doors for me and it is my deepest desire that once I am back on my feet again, that I return the favor by helping others in need.

Thank you so much for reading my story.
Kelly

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Nurse in Need  

Nurse in Need

Hello, I am Kelly and I am a Registered Nurse. I've spent many years having the opportunity to do what I love, helping others in need. I have been the caregiver and advocate for others who are suffering from illness or injury and also a liason for family members who are caught in the painful, sometime powerless feeling of watching their loved ones go through illness or injury.

Now I find myself in the position of needing help. I was injured at work and my employer is denying the validity of the claim. While this has to be worked out in court, which could take months, I have lost the only source of income for my family...me. I have no income and bills that will not wait. My biggest fear is that I will loose my home since I am unable to pay my mortgage of $296 per month and it is already overdue. It is so difficult to ask for help, but I would imagine it is just as difficult to offer help to someone you do not know so if I may, I will give you insight into who I am.

I accepted the position as Director of Nursing at my current job. This facility's pay is very low with no health insurance or other health benefits, no sick time, vacation or holiday pay. This facility also had a reputation of doing very badly during state visits and has an administrator who is known for treating her staff poorly and letting the people in her care do without even some of the most basic of needs.

I had my work cut out for me and I was up to the challenge. But I did not take the job because it would be easy. I took the job because I saw a need for my skills and expertise and I knew I could make a difference in the lives of the patients and the staff. I firmly believe that everyone, regardless of their financial or social status, deserve the best care available. And with the help of other dedicated staff members, I was able to create an environment that was focused on the well-being of those under my care. The patients and staff now had someone who was not afraid to speak up for them. Someone who put the patient's needs above all else and set the standard for other health care professionals in the facility. Having State Survey cite no deficiencies (the first time in over 10 years) was an added bonus. But the best indicator that I was doing my job was on the faces of those in my care. It wasn't uncommon for me to clock out at three but not leave until four. As I would make my way toward the door, patients would stop me and want to talk to me, share stories with me or just want to exchange pleasantries as I left and make sure I was coming back 'tomorrow'.

In my private life, I had my work cut out for me too. We had bought an extreme fixer-upper, but I fell in love with the house at first sight and knew, once the work was finished, it would be a wonderful home to grow old in. We have been doing all the work ourselves, but the work on our home has come to a stand still since there is not money to complete the projects still needing to be done.

Don't get me wrong. I do not mind living in our home that still needs so much work. I figured we may even be able to do without electricity if it comes to that, but I am terrified to loose our home. We would then be put out in the streets.

If anyone is able to help, I would be so greatful. And please, any help would be appreciated, no matter what it is.

Thank you for taking the time to ready my story.

Bless you all!

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Nurse in Need  

Nurse in Need

Hi, I'm Kelly and I am a Nurse in Need of Your Help

I am a woman who has dedicated my life to helping others but sadly, I was injured at work and was told by the doctor to stop working. The doctors think that the damage to my knees are extensive but my employer says the injuries are unverified and has convinced the insurance company to hold off treatment. Even though I have been treated terribly by my employer and the insurance company, I still have faith in the caring and compassion of others. It is with this belief that I humbly ask for help. Although financial help is what I need so desparately, even a kind word or some advise will be greatly appreciated.

If you would like more information about me and the help I need, please click on my AidPage 'Can you please help a nurse in need?'

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Injured MOM  

I filed a workers compensation claim and was forced to quit!!

I fell at work in December and broke my ankle and injured my knee.  My employer got very upset when I filed a workers compensation claim.  He made me return to work before being released from doctors care, it was that or loose my job.  He made things so misearable that he forced me to quit my job by physically threating me.  I have to have another surgery on Wednesday that will have me laid up for 6 weeks. I don't know how I'm going to pay for housing, food, formula for my 8 month old son, diapers, wipes etc for him.  I also have a 4 year old daughter.  Everything takes time, the quickest aid is still at least 3 months out.  I would appreciate any help that could be given to me and my children.  My e-mail is aheasley2002@yahoo.com  Thanks.

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Krissy2  

Krissy2

 

Hi Kris here from South San Francisco, 43 and a mother of one, she is 21 and is in college, I am a Medical Assistant who has been injured on the job over a year ago now and have been waiting for surgery on my shoulder for months now but due the fact that Workers Comp denied my claim I am in the middle of Appealing my case, The stress that this brings with it is overwhelming at times. Compounded by being in pain while dealing with this matter is no help. And since this is all that has been consuming my days and nights (sleepless nights) Life as I once knew has been altered to the point it is not mine any longer.

I need help looking for a Dentist who will do a Crown Re-Cement for Free Fast.

 

 

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Laura4  

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Hi, My name is Laura and I am a single mom of two great kids Kasey 15 and Joey who is 10. We have been without a car for two years now due to two job lay-offs. It has really been hard. Six years ago I was diagnosed with Cancer in my right kidney and adrenal gland. By the grace of God I survived a surgery to remove these organs out of my body. If you believe you are blessed to be a blessing then please if you can help donate your vehicle and help out our family I know you will be blessed back 100 fold. Thank You, Laura S from Texas
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Help with a ride  

Need help with a Car

My name is Adam, and I just got a really good job with Sony through a friend of mine. I haven't worked in a year due to a neck injury which I just recently had reconstructive surgery on (They went in and took out a piece of bonein my neck, took out a disk, put in an implant then fused the two neck bones together). I used to do labor-style work, but unfortuneately those days are over at 22 years old. Now, like I said before, I did get the job with Sony. The only problem is, I need a way of getting there. If someone has a car they can let me pay off or is willing to cosign on a used car for me, either will be great. Only thing with that is, it needs to be extremely reliable being I will be driving all over Florida...

 If you or someone you know can help, please email me at WojoForLoans@aol.com

Thanking you in advance,

Adam

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Help with a ride  

Help with a ride

I'm a 22yr old living with a friend in Largo FL. Before my neck injury I used to play football, rock climb, ride motorcycles, I just used to live life. After the neck injury, I can't even lift more than 20 pounds with out feeling some sort of pain.

Like a lot of people, I hit a rough spot, and I'm not asking for a hand out, Just asking for a lil bit of help.

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